In 2019, Charlotte Gumbi became a victim of cyberbullying and Gender-Based Violence when her former boyfriend shared her nude pictures on social media.
Gumbi says her former boyfriend sent her naked photographs to people who knew her on WhatsApp, to her family, and to people who live in her street.
After the traumatic experience, Gumbi launched a non-profit organisation (NPO) called Humanity Must Rise.
“I was depressed for a few days after the incident until I decided I would no longer hide behind the shame of the abuse.”
She decided to create awareness, give hope to rape survivors and give young girls, boys and women the courage to speak up.
Through the NPO, Gumbi has been speaking at schools, youth development events and radio, creating awareness on rape, bullying and cyberbullying.
“Children in primary schools have access to smartphones. They are also subjected to cyberbullying and sharing naked pictures of themselves.”
Gumbi advises youngsters to never share their nudes. She says if you decided to share them, do this in confidence with your partner but know the dangers of your images ending up on the internet.
“Remember that once something is on the internet it’s there for life and you can never take it back. Think of it this way. If you wouldn’t want your future kids, husband or employer to see it on a billboard, then don’t post it and don’t share it with anyone,” she says.
available to give talks to children and youth. Email her on firstname.lastname@example.org or search her on any social media platform under the name Charlee Hustle.
If you are being cyber bullied call the GBV Command Centre at 0800 428 428 or visit your nearest police station to report the matter.